Everything is so easy nowadays.
With the increase of social media's users everyday, it's so easy to get opinions and ideas, to get information and knowledge from other people across the globe which we can easily get influenced as well with these so-called professional opinions, (no certificate or reliable sources by the way).
We are not meant to access knowledge this easily. I mean, not literally but hear(read) me out.
When everything becomes so easy, we become lazy. Lazy to think critically, clearly or even seeing a bigger picture of an idea that we become more judgmental, more skeptical because "hey, i know things!!!", "i know this from TikTok, you are not supposed to do that", bla..bla..bla.
(Macam otak kau tersekat dekat level 1, takleh nak pikir, takleh nak terima different opinions. Macam lah ada 1 je opinion dalam dunia ni.)
I personally think it's getting worse, (especially on Threads lol) when people start to ask opinions of a very normal situations of their life. (which if you use your finest brain, you can actually think!)
"Hi guys, I have a question. Is it normal to have friends who reply 3 months late, i wanna leave this friendship so bad"
"Guys, why is my husband keep coming home late?"
Gosh.
It's exhausting. Aren't you exhausted?
If things aren't going well in your relationship or friendship, you freaking COMMUNICATE??? Have you tried that???? Or is being in relationship means exposing everything online to you???
On the other hand, I see a pattern lately, social media has sort of putting this perfect standard in relationship/friendship that if you are not one of those standards, you are a RED FLAG!!! Then, we compare ourselves a lot while knowing that comparing is literally a thief of joy.
It's depressing.
Social media are teaching people to chase for perfect relationship instead of accepting flaws and working things out. Mind you, we humans are all different beings, we brought up different. Your common sense might not be others' common sense but please for the love of Allah SWT, do not rely on social media!!! Please take things in a grain of salt. If things don't go well, then leave.
Love yourself, get to know yourself first, dear. It's impossible to achieve perfection in life. Take it slow. It's just dunya anyway <3
